Life at Random

Reverse Bucket List

Today the Momfessionals blog is hosting a fun topic, talking about “Reverse Bucket Lists” on her “Show and Tell Tuesday.” I think bucket lists are important to have because they make us think about what we want in life and what it might take to get there. But personally I have always clumped bucket lists together with goal setting. Sure, its important to dream and take the time to write down your list, but I think it is so easy to never get past that step if we don’t set goals and think through the actions we need to take to get us there.

Anyway, I love the idea of celebrating and highlighting a reverse bucket list because I do think it is easy to look at other people’s lives (especially on social media) and feel negative toward your own life experiences and accomplishments. I’m all about looking ahead to what’s to come, but I think its important to remind ourselves how far we’ve come too.

As I was writing this, two things stood out to me:

  1. I included some things that weren’t necessarily on my bucket list or a particular goal before they happened, but they are significant parts of my story that I am proud of.
  2. As I browsed around for pictures to use and to help spark ideas for what to include on this post, I was reminded that though everything might not be a “bucket list” caliber item, I’ve lived a pretty awesome, fun and love-filled life so far, and that thought really made my day.

 

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— Going to and graduating from an out of state college —

DLC Photography.

Graduated from Kansas State University in 2013 with a bachelor of science in agricultural communications and journalism, and was recognized as the Outstanding Senior in my department.

— Serving on the National AFA Student Advisory Team in college —

Not sure I would call this a bucket list item, but more of a “I don’t have high hopes, but I don’t have anything to lose by applying” that turned into one of the most important experiences of my life thus far. A year of traveling with these 8 other college students to plan a student conference and learn about agriculture and careers, has shaped me personally and professionally in a way that is beyond measure, and brought so many wonderful people into my life. And more importantly, years later it is a network that continues to push me and support me in so many ways.

— Traveling internationally —

Thailand in 2017.
The Philippines in 2017.
Guatemala in 2015.
Mexico in 2012.

For three of those I have my job to thank. On those trips I got to do some pretty cool things like boat on the Andaman Sea, ride an elephant and hike a volcano! Obviously there are a LOT more places on my list to check off…with Greece and Australia at the top!

— Building a career I love —

I started out my career in the pork industry in Kansas and now I work in the wheat and trade industry just outside of Washington, D.C. On one hand I know that I am extremely lucky for the opportunities that have come my way and the people who have supported me along the way. But on the other hand, I do feel very proud of myself for the hard work I’ve put in to get to where I am only 5 years out of college. I’ve wanted to be a communicator for farmers for as long as I can remember, and that’s exactly what I am doing.

— Moving to Washington, D.C. —


I often tell people the story about how I went from randomly finding out about this open job position on January 9, accepting it on February 9 and starting in on March 9 (all in 2015). And that all included picking up and moving from Manhattan, KS, to Arlington, VA, a place where, once again, I didn’t know anyone, and was WAY different than anywhere I lived before. Looking back, I really do often think, “who the heck does that??” People have asked me whether moving here was a dream or goal of mine, and for the most part, the answer is no. I visited D.C. four times throughout middle school, high school and college, and have always been fascinated by it, but never thought too seriously about moving there. As I finished college, I looked for jobs in Kansas and the PNW (where I grew up.) I was pretty sure that I didn’t want to make another life changing move ever again and I was happy with those two areas. So when I decided that I was ready to move on from my first job, those are the areas I looked again. Yet, less than 12 hours after stumbling across this job posting on Facebook I called my parents to tell them that I had this really strong gut feeling that this was what I needed and wanted to do next.

— Attending an inauguration —

I could (and maybe should) do a post just focused on my “living in Washington, D.C.” bucket list and reverse bucket list.  But once I moved here and knew that I would probably be here at least a few years, attending an inauguration in person was definitely at the top, regardless who ended up as the President. For me, I just just excited to be experiencing a part of U.S. history in person.

— Getting a sister tattoo —


While the other major things on my list above are accomplishments and great experiences, this is more of fun to-do that my sister and I talked about for a long time before we finally decided what we wanted to get and followed through on it. Tattoos aren’t for everyone, but this is extra special because not only it is our last name, but it is written in our mom’s handwriting.

— A few others —

– Keeping up with this blog, even if it has seen some hiatuses 🙂
– Building genuine, lifetime friendships and relationships with my family
– Finding a church community I am comfortable in
– Traveling to all 50 states… I have 35 done (plus Guam) and 15 left to go!
– Buying a DSLR camera
– Visiting NYC
– Watching Independence Day fireworks on the National Mall and at Mt. Vernon
– Taking my sister to Vegas for her 21st birthday
– Learning to crochet
– Becoming a Lifetime Member of the K-State Alumni Association
– Becoming of a AFA Lifetime Alliance Member
– Traveling to watch K-State play in a bowl game (done this twice in 2014 and 2015)
– Rushing the field and the court as a college student
– Attending a game of every major pro team sport (covered football, basketball, baseball and hockey, missing soccer!)
– Too many bucket list concerts to count…and so many to go!

Cheers!

Family, Photography, Travel Journal

Travel Journal: Candid in Bangkok and Phuket, Thailand

Friends, here it is.

My LAST travel journal post about my AMAZING trip to Thailand! It has been just short of two months since I returned and I hope that you have enjoyed hearing and seeing my trip as much as I have enjoyed reliving it through these posts. Even after looking back, it is really hard for me to pick a favorite part, but overall I am so happy that I got to share this experience with my grandparents and Aunt Diane.

Overall my only complaints are my really bad sunburn (somewhat my fault) and that I got really sick when I came back from a virus we think I got over there.

(Side note: I mentioned in my very first post that for the sake on journaling I would circle back to this. Basically, a week after I returned I became really sick with a fever, headache, body ache, extreme fatigue and rash. Except for one experience in college, it might be the most sick I’ve ever been. It landed me in the emergency room, which then led me on a trail of different doctor’s visits because I had low platelets. They could never quite tell me what I had but after about three weeks I was finally back to normal.)

ANY WAY.

For my last post I am pulling together the rest of the pictures from the trip that are more candid and didn’t fit into any particular other post very well. This also includes pictures from our dinner cruise in Bangkok.

See below to see the rest of my posts from my entire trip!

Travel Journal: USW South Asia Board Team to Thailand and the Philippines

Travel Journal: Wat Pho, Wat Arun and the Grand Palace in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Pak Khlong Talat Flower Market in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Chatuchak Weekend Market and Jim Thompson House in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Thai Cooking Class and Elephant Rides in Phuket, Thailand

Travel Journal: Koh Hong Island Excursion

Travel Journal: Karon Beach Sunset in Phuket, Thailand

Dinner Cruise

On one evening in Bangkok, we did a dinner cruise on the “Grand Pearl” on the Chao Phraya River, which included a full meal. The food was good, but not great. After we ate we moved to the top deck for a better view. Overall we had a good time, but we weren’t raving about it. I liked the music and atmosphere up on the top deck, but my family would probably say that the music was a little too loud and didn’t fit with the beautiful scenes we were taking in.

Our ship.

I bought the ceremonial picture they took before we boarded the ship. So this is a picture of that picture, which is why it is a little lest sharp.

View of the Grand Palace from the river.

View of the Wat Arun temple from the river.

Misc in Bangkok

My Grammy’s name is Gloria Jean…

This was a piece of artwork that I was in LOVE with and want to recreate someday. All of those books are different kinds of dictionaries in different languages and some for specific subjects.

Everyday while we were in Bangkok we would return to the hotel in the late afternoon and relax with a Diet Coke (or on this day for me, a Corona) before we headed upstairs to freshen up and head to dinner.

On a plaza outside one hotel we passed was probably a dozen or so fun, motivating phrases engraved into the sidewalks. I took pictures of almost all of them, but this one was my favorite.

Aunt Diane

These brooms were used to street sweeping.

Sisters.

Misc in Phuket


In Phuket, my Aunt Diane and I went parasailing on Karon Beach. When I was a kid I went parasailing at Wallowa Lake (in Oregon) and we both launched and landed on the back of the boat. Here things were much less formal, so after we were all strapped in we just started running on the beach (which was pretty comical because my Aunt is even shorter than me) and were eventually lifted up. What was crazy was that one of the guys in the picture road with us…just hanging out on the ropes not connected to anything, and would sometimes lightly push his foot into my back and ropes to steer us. It was so much fun to see that view and relax up there. And it was really cheap.

While we were out doing some shopping we stumbled across this place that gave fish pedicures. So as you can see in the pictures, you sit with your feet in the water while little fish nibble away at your dead skin. And the reason there is no picture of me? Because while I am all about trying new experiences, there was no way you could have paid me to do that. I am WAY TOO ticklish. My Aunt Diane thought it was the best thing ever, while my Grammy liked the results, but couldn’t stand to watch it happening.

Definitely watch this video for a good laugh!

Since I traveled to Guatemala almost two years ago and bought two small pieces of local paintings off the street, I have decided that I want to do that in every country I visit. In Thailand it was a bit harder to find something I liked, but I finally found a group of brothers selling their paintings on our last day. It was definitely worth the wait. When I finally get the canvas restretched I will probably share it on Instagram.

Well, there you go.

Thailand is a beautiful country with such a rich culture and traveling there with three people that I love so very much was an experience unlike any other.

Thank you to my Grampy, Grammy and Aunt Diane for sharing this experience with me.

I would definitely recommend it for vacation and have already had a few people ask me for advice on traveling there, so I would be more than happy to chat with anyone more!

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Cheers!

Family, Photography, Travel Journal

Travel Journal: Karon Beach Sunset in Phuket, Thailand

I am winding down on my Travel Journal blog posts for my trip to Thailand… only one more left after this!

If you haven’t been following along already be sure to checkout out my other posts so far from this trip!

Travel Journal: USW South Asia Board Team to Thailand and the Philippines

Travel Journal: Wat Pho, Wat Arun and the Grand Palace in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Pak Khlong Talat Flower Market in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Chatuchak Weekend Market and Jim Thompson House in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Thai Cooking Class and Elephant Rides in Phuket, Thailand

Travel Journal: Koh Hong Island Excursion

Karon Beach Sunset

I saw a lot of beautiful things on this trip but I am pretty sure that nothing compares to the sunset on Karon Beach. Our flights out of Phuket were red eyes so on the last evening I went back down to the beach about 20 minutes before the sun was supposed to set for some quiet time and picture taking. If you know me, you know that I am a mountain girl through and through, but seriously, this beach sunset was breathtaking.

While I was relaxing on the sand for a bit, a young woman around my age came up to me with a DSLR camera of her own and asked if I would take a few pictures of her. She didn’t speak very good English, but I learned that she was visiting Thailand from Indonesia. Once I took her picture, she immediately reached for my camera and insisted on doing the same because I had “sunset colored hair.” She also insisted that I would look like I was having more fun if I threw up a peace sign 🙂

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Stay tuned for more posts covering this trip soon!

Cheers!

Family, Photography, Travel Journal

Travel Journal: Koh Hong Island Excursion

Continuing to blog about my trip to Thailand in February and today’s focus is one that I have been so looking forward to sharing.

If you haven’t been following along be sure to checkout out my other posts so far from this trip!

Travel Journal: USW South Asia Board Team to Thailand and the Philippines

Travel Journal: Wat Pho, Wat Arun and the Grand Palace in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Pak Khlong Talat Flower Market in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Chatuchak Weekend Market and Jim Thompson House in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Thai Cooking Class and Elephant Rides in Phuket, Thailand

Island Excursion

I have always been fascinated with the pictures of the islands in the Andaman Sea west of Thailand, so going on an island excursion was toward the top of my list of things to do during the vacation.

We went through a company called Bluanda, and we would highly recommend them. They had a fun, great staff and our group was maybe about 12 total.

A shuttle picked us up and took us to the other side of Phuket where we had a light breakfast and then boarded the catamaran.

Our first stop was Koh Hong Island where we relaxed, swam and snorkeled. I saw so many beautiful fish!

We then went a bit north to the Phang Nga Bay, which is used as a backdrop in many movies, including the James Bond movie, “The Man with the Golden Gun.”

Finally we stopped at a private island that I can’t remember the name of. There we had lunch and then relaxed a bit more on the beach before we did some kayaking and went on a short rain forest hike, where we saw banana trees!

The trip wrapped up with a ride back to the marina at sunset.

It was a full, sandy and sweaty day, but so relaxing and beautiful. For the sake of this being a journal, I should also add that I got the worst sunburn of my life the day before so the only bad part of the day was that my shoulders were pretty sensitive and stiff.

Koh Hong Island

I’m not really a fan of coconut water, and trust me, I keep trying different brands because I want to like it. But I did like it much better in its real form and wish that it had been cold instead of warm.

Our lunch came in these stackable hot pots which was one of our favorite meals of the trip.

These bananas and purple potatoes were SO GOOD!

Our private island for an afternoon.

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Stay tuned for more posts covering this trip soon!

Cheers!

Family, Photography, Travel Journal

Travel Journal: Thai Cooking Class and Elephant Rides in Phuket, Thailand

I’ve been pretty busy and worn out from getting caught up at work lately (from both the trip in February and being sick for most of March), but I am determined to get the rest of these posts edited and up in the next week. I believe there will be three more after this.

So after four days in Bangkok, my family and I took a short flight down to Phuket… aka the part in Thailand you see in all of the amazing photos on travel sites.

We stayed down in the Karon Beach area at the Hilton Grand Vacation Club.

Today I am sharing about the Thai cooking class we took and the morning spent riding and playing with elephants.

Be sure to checkout out my other posts so far from this trip!

Travel Journal: USW South Asia Board Team to Thailand and the Philippines

Travel Journal: Wat Pho, Wat Arun and the Grand Palace in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Pak Khlong Talat Flower Market in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Chatuchak Weekend Market and Jim Thompson House in Bangkok, Thailand

Thai Cooking Class

I’ve never really been someone who gains joy from cooking or even preparing a meal for others, but for whatever reason I kept insisting that I wanted us to take a Thai cooking class during our trip. I love Thai food and I just thought it would be a unique way to experience it.

At our resort in Phuket they offered a class that was taught by the chef who was in charge of all of the resort’s restaurants! Honestly it was a cooler experience than I was anticipating. No we really didn’t do much more that dumping already prepared servings of ingredients and then stirring, but before we started the chef walked through all of the ingredients we were using and taught us about them. Plus the staff was fun to work with.

We paired off, Grammy and Aunt Diane together, and Grampy with me, to prepare four different recipes from booklets that we got to take home with us. And the best part of course was that we got to eat what we made for lunch! I would definitely recommend doing a cooking class in any country that you visit.

Elephants

Riding an elephant was definitely on my list of things I really wanted to do on this trip, but friends… my excitement before doesn’t compare to how COOL it really was! I honestly didn’t want to leave!

We did our rides through Kok Chang Safari. There were a few other “treks” or “adventure” packages that were advertised at our resort but this only seemed to be both the cheapest and straightforward experience. We signed up for the 20 minute ride, which was perfect for us, but you can ride for up to an hour. We also loved that they picked us up from the resort and took us back, and that there was a cute little outdoor bar to hang out at afterward.

The seats themselves were pretty sturdy but there was only a rope holding up in and on some of the really steep part we still had to hold on a bit.

It was FASCINATING to watch how they steered and directed the elephants mostly using vocal cues and their feet on the sides behind the ear or on their temples. It was actually really similar to riding a horse. A few time they put more pressure on those areas using a stick, kind of like you use reins.

The guy took my digital camera and not joking… took over 30 pictures. Which was a joy to sort through…

The elephant my grandparents are on is named “Happy New Year” and the one I am on with Aunt Diane is named “Pancake.”

And don’t mind the fact that I am looking down. My legs were just long enough to rub the elephant’s back which was so much softer than I was expecting.

Bath time!

I really could have stayed there all day. They were just SO SWEET 🙂

#Hangry

So for a couple of baht (20?) you could buy a basket of banana halves to feed them. I think we bought 3 or 4 baskets.

Pretty sure selfies are allowed (and very cool) when they are with an elephant.

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Stay tuned for more posts covering this trip soon!

Cheers!

Family, Photography, Travel Journal

Travel Journal: Chatuchak Weekend Market and Jim Thompson House in Bangkok, Thailand

Hey hey! Continuing to share about my big trip to Thailand. Originally I was a bit annoyed that being sick and trying to otherwise get caught up on life had put me really behind on blogging about the trip, but now I’m actually ok because its bringing back so many fun memories. I mentioned in my first post that I would be splitting the posts up based on experiences instead of specific days because some places I took A LOT of pictures and others not so much. Today’s post is example of that.

Be sure to checkout out my other posts so far from this trip!

Travel Journal: USW South Asia Board Team to Thailand and the Philippines

Travel Journal: Wat Pho, Wat Arun and the Grand Palace in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: Pak Khlong Talat Flower Market in Bangkok, Thailand

Jim Thompson House

On our last full day in Bangkok we walked to the Jim Thompson House, which was about 3 miles one-way from our hotel, along the Saen Saeb Canal. This was on every blog and travel site that I looked at when we were planning our vacation. Jim Thompson was an American solider who settled down in Thailand after he was discharged in 1946 because of his love for the culture. He is responsible for playing a major role in reviving the Thai silk industry. After he mysteriously disappeared in 1967 his home and life’s work eventually was turned into a museum and foundation. The six traditional Thai teakwood buildings that make up his home compound are filled with art that he collected and surrounded by an enclosed garden.

As every site said, I would DEFINITELY recommend this for those visiting Bangkok. It gave us a different perspective and look at Thai culture and learning about the silk industry was really interesting! I will warn people that it is a big tricky to find, so definitely check out a map. But if you get a little lost like we did… you just might stumble upon the Saen Saeb Canal, which is worth the extra time to stroll along.

Of course the family of florists had to take pictures of a flower that we didn’t recognize!

Someone correct me if I am wrong, but if I remember correctly they said that ONE of these pods/nuggets (?) will be spun into a MILE of thread. And if I am misquoted than, its not by much because I remember being floored by the number.

Chatuchak Weekend Market

Our very first morning we headed to the Chatuchak Weekend Market, also known as the “JJ Market.” This is another place that went twice, first with my work team and then again with my family. I didn’t mind at all because the market is HUGE (it spans 27 acres!) and it gave me the chance to better scout out the things I wanted to buy. I didn’t take very many pictures worth sharing here.

Gramps forgot to bring sunglasses so we had to pick him up a pair.

These next two photos should have gone in my post about visiting the temples but were sorted into the wrong folder.

At Wat Arun with Grampy.

At Wat Arun with Grammy.

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Stay tuned for more posts covering this trip!

Cheers!

Family, Photography, Travel Journal

Travel Journal: Pak Khlong Talat Flower Market in Bangkok, Thailand

Today I am sharing about one of the highlights of my trip to Thailand that was really unique for my family.

My Grammy started her flower shop, Cottage Flowers, 28 years ago, and has since passed the business on to my mom. I have always said that growing up in a flower shop made for a pretty interesting childhood and really it is the main place that I call home. So when I read about Bangkok’s 24-hour flower market I knew that had to be on our must-see list.

By the way, curious about how this trip came to be or what else we saw? Below are my other two travel journal blog posts from this trip that I have posted so far:

Travel Journal: Wat Pho, Wat Arun and the Grand Palace in Bangkok, Thailand

Travel Journal: USW South Asia Board Team to Thailand and the Philippines

Pak Khlong Talat Flower Market

The flower market was AMAZING and we spent almost an entire morning walking around it.

I can’t really say whether or not every traveler would love it, but if you love farmer’s markets, flowers or produce in any way I would highly recommend it. Plus it seemed to have less of a tourist vibe and I don’t actually remember seeing any other tourists there. I read that the best time to go to see a lot of the market busy in action is early in the morning that we weren’t quite that motivated.

The market is the biggest wholesale and retail fresh flower market in Bangkok, and also has quite a bit of produce.  I am not going to try to guess how big it is but the wholesale part of the market takes up a large warehouse and some alleys, while the retail stores were in various sizes of stalls lining the outer part of the market along the street. It was really fun for us to walk through and point out the things that were different from how we care for and design with the flowers, and what things were exactly the same. And we couldn’t get over the cheap prices! It was one thing for us to know what a baht converts to in U.S. dollars, but it put things into a different perspective when you applied it to flowers and arrangements.

I took SO many pictures that morning, so it is a miracle that I was able to narrow it down to even this many.

My Grampy and Grammy.

Main entrance.

These were really cool arrangements made of really little (about the size of a penny or dime) flowers. When we were inspecting them a Thai women who was designing one gave us one of the flowers.

Growing up one of reoccurring chores at the flower shop is to refill water picks (for the end of flowers when they are being wrapped and not put into a vase.) Our look a bit different in the U.S. so the women let me take a video. Plus she was so fast!

I didn’t the picture I wanted to in time, but all of those flowers are balance on a trolley cart and we watched this man that was almost shorter than the stack pull it along with it basically resting on this back.

The chili peppers were so pretty!


Part of the vegetable market.

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Stay tuned for more posts covering this trip!

Cheers!